My Ex Boyfriend Doesn't Text Me Back! Here's Your Next Move
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My Ex Boyfriend Doesn't Text Me Back! Here's Your Next Move


You've been dealing with so many things since the break up, haven't you? You have to juggle the sadness, with the loneliness with the apprehension that comes with not knowing what your future holds. You miss your ex and you feel compelled at times to tell him as much, don't you? Maybe it's in the form of phone call after phone call or perhaps you share your innermost feelings in text messages with him. Regardless, you probably regret it soon after you do it. In the case of text messages, there's always the sinking feeling in your stomach when he doesn't respond. Dealing with an ex boyfriend who ignores your texts isn't easy to do. Internally you feel a whole range of emotions from disappointment to rage. They're all to be expected, but how you respond to his refusal to write back can determine exactly what's going to happen between you two in the future.

Whenever a woman says, "my boyfriend doesn't text me back," she's lowering her own self worth. She's putting her emotions on the line for a man who doesn't have the decency to even acknowledge her. Nothing stings quite as much as being in love with someone who pretends you don't exist. It's actually even more emotionally wrenching when that person happens to be your ex boyfriend. You know that he's capable of loving you because he did very much at one time. Now your relationship has deteriorated to the point that he doesn't even put in the effort to respond. That's the very reason why you have to stop for a moment, and clearly think about what you're doing before you send another text his way.

The next move you should be making if he is repeatedly ignoring your text messages is to stop sending them! I can't stress this enough. You must break the cycle that you've created for yourself. You send him a message, you wait eagerly for a response, a day passes and you hear nothing and it sinks you into a vat of depressed feelings. You get angry with yourself for doing it and you swear that you won't do it again, yet you do. It's completely understandable why you do it. You love him and you don't want to miss your chance to have a future with him. That's why you have to change your pattern of behavior and show your ex that you're no longer that scared, lonely girl who is going to chase after him endlessly.

If you don't feel you have the willpower to stop texting your ex boyfriend, delete his contact information from your phone. I realize this feels drastic, but it's for your own good. You're going to be much less tempted to contact him if his number isn't accessible. I recognize that you likely have his number memorized along with his birthday and favorite color, but you must do whatever it takes to stop texting him. Deleting his number is truly more symbolic than anything. You'll be proving to yourself that you're stronger than your weakest emotions.

Once you've done that it's time to shift your focus to your own life and what you can do right now to find happiness. View this time as an emotional holiday. Try your best to push aside all the negative emotions you've associated with the break up and instead look towards the future. Don't focus on what you want your relationship to be as you move forward, but what you want your life in general to be like. Is there a career goal you have yet to achieve? Have you always wanted to try a new hobby and just haven't had the time. Now is when you should be diving into the things you really want for yourself, not for you as part of a potential couple with your ex.

Give yourself a few weeks to get over what happened with you and your ex. During that time, do what you can to resist the temptation to text him. You also need to mindful of avoiding him in person and staying away from emailing him or contacting him on any social network sites. You're taking an "ex boyfriend break" so ensure you keep yourself out of his life. Once some time has passed, you can then logically decide what you want for your life. Put yourself and your needs first. It's the most important thing.

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  •  Tamara: 

    Thanks to for his wonderful work, My girlfriend left a week before our vacation to be with another man. I was desperate to get her back when I tried 5 other people to do a spell to get her back and nothing worked. I was still alone. Then I found dr.marnish by accident. I don’t know how I found him, I don’t remember. But, when I first saw the good testimonies about his wonderful work and after reading the Testimonials, I decided I had to try and give it one last shot. After my spells, I got a text from my lover. And we started going back and forth by text, she asked to meet the next day. So we did, and that night we ended up sleeping together, and about a few days after we got back together. anyone who needs help, should email dr.marnish. He is the best.
    Tamara ash
     729 days ago 
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  •  JamesMoon135: 
    I live in united state, Two years ago i married a lady called saline, we had two children together, we were very happy to be husband and wife, so when i travel on business trip to Brazil, i spent 1 years in Brazil due to my kind of business, i and my wife talked on phone all the time, we chat on the Internet, i never knew that my wife had started cheating on me by going out with her old school friend called mark, i never knew something was going wrong till i came back from my trip, then i and My wife started having problems, she goes out and come back late at night, she changed in a strange way that i could not endure, i tried to do everything to please her but it got worst, so one day she left the house and never came back, i tried reaching her but no way i could reach her, i never knew she traveled with her new lover which was mark, i wanted her so much because of the children she left for me and because i loved her so much too, because of the heart break she put me into, i went into search of a real magic spell caster I was scammed twice by a spell caster, but I never relented in my search because I want a happy life with my wife, so one morning i saw testimony about a spell caster prophet harry, so i contacted him and to my greatest surprise this made life manful for me again, my wife came back to me, i took her back and I am now settled with my wife by the magic power of prophet harry spell .
    James moon'

     900 days ago 
    1 point
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